Choosing Joy
“Choose joy,”
Oft-repeated advice that, on the surface, makes
sense,
Dig a little deeper, and it can be very unhealthy,
Dig down to the depths and it can be beautiful,
“Choose joy,”
It does not mean
To suppress negative emotions,
To cut off the parts of yourself that feel pain,
Isolating them behind a wall even as Fortunato,
left to console himself only with his wine
while he died a slow and painful death in
darkness and isolation, was walled away from the world
by one who could not stand him,
To pretend that everything is perfectly fine when
your mind, body, and spirit are screaming at you
That you are in a place that requires knowing
sadness, loss, anger, grief
In short, choosing joy does not mean to choose
not to feel pain,
It does not mean choosing to ignore the facets of
Yahweh that can only be found in the depths of destruction,
It is so much more
It is recognizing Yahweh in the darkness as much
as the light,
It is enduring the manifestation of your greatest
fears and knowing that you are still here after all,
It is weeping for hours on the floor of the
bathroom unable to breathe through the heartache
and trusting that it will be okay, that the
heartache will not last forever
It is screaming obscenities into the night while
beating the floor in a tantrum worthy of a three-year-old
as you allow Yahweh to rearrange everything about
the way you believed and allowing Yahweh to rearrange
everything you ever thought you knew or believed,
It is climbing onto a cross and feeling the sharpness
of the nails in your hands as your diaphragm
is no longer able to expand to allow you to take
that life-giving breath and learning to find other sources of
oxygen,
It is committing your Spirit to a higher plane
and losing absolutely everything you ever built
to lay in a tomb that didn’t even belong to you
in the first place as you sink to the depths of Hell
itself and place yourself in captivity so that
you can lead captivity captive
Choosing joy is not so superficial as once
thought,
It’s not about smiles and the kind of faith that
only works if everything turns out okay,
It’s not even about believing that everything is
going to turn out okay,
It’s knowing that even if it does not turn out
okay,
It will still be okay because I AM and because We
are
For as the Hebrew children knew,
Our God is able to deliver us from anything,
But if not,
Let Him be known to us anyway,
For they were not saved from going into the fire,
And yet what they found therein was worth more
than all the gold on the idol
To whom they refused to bow,
And the joy found in the agony is worth more than
all the idolatrous “joy”
That only shows a small portion of all that Yahweh really
is.
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